Death represents a significant and vulnerable point in time for both the individual facing it and his or her loved ones. In the medical field, it is even associated with failure; only five out of 125 medical schools (4%) in the country offer a course on death and dying. This negative stigma means that what should be accepted as a natural part of life, often becomes an uncomfortable topic.
However, it is important to talk about death with loved ones. There are emotional benefits to reflecting on a life spent together, and expressing gratitude and admiration. It is also important to ask difficult questions so that this topic receives adequate attention and preparation. While everyone would prefer to focus on life, a significant amount of stress related to death can be reduced by proper planning.
Press play to hear McManus & Associates Founding Principal John O. McManus explain his 10 recommendations below for getting the best end-of-life care:
1. Know your options – What is the difference between hospice and palliative care?
2. Dot your i’s and cross your t’s – Are all the necessary legal documents in order?
3. Broach the subject – Have you had a discussion with your loved one to understand what his or her wishes are?
4. Nail down the timeline – When does your loved one want end-of-life care to begin?
5. Research reputation – Have you discovered all that you can about the potential care facilities that you are considering?
6. Find out who is behind the mask – How well do you know your loved one’s care providers?
7. Do your due diligence – Have you done your own research? Have you asked care providers to tell you what you can do to help? Have you explored all of the factors that could influence your decision?
8. Learn the ins and outs – Is in-patient or out-patient care best for your loved one and family?
9. Prepare Plan B – Do you have a backup plan?
10. Ask for help – Could your loved one and family benefit from counseling?
For guidance on ensuring that your estate plan reflects your wishes for life and death, contact McManus & Associates at 908-898-0100.